(Joint family problems)

Hi dear friends let me request u one thing first i need only suggestions good one only. I m 25 years married i have one cutie son 50% happy in my life . Actully story starts from when i was in class 8th i love a boy in my school but i never told him after my matric one day he call me on our landline n confess that he is in live with me so ess k baad we talked some tines through net or fone we never met any where . Over religions r change sunni n shiyaa but i love him so time dey k terrey do terrey do i realy try to brake my bachpan engagement but i m failed ..one day i told him that i m getting married n agha just chup sho he says to me its ok go on n dont forget kerp in contact with me.it realy hurts me but what to do after.my marriage i talked him two three timesbut after that i feel it will creat problems n zama more pkaar ba sharminda she ka chata pata olageda i changed.number n every thing Now he us texting me on fb about 2 years baad i ferl good when i talked to him but i dont want to start it again I m happyeithmy hubby but his family is so big joint family n i jyst hate it nothing we can do cant go to outing he says agha ba khafa she khor ba khafa she what to do i needmy own home beshak sookhi rooti khawoon n my good life no tensions ka.ogerey ess problem nishta.n if u go deep inside my hearttgere r too many problems

( What should she do ) suggestions needed

Salam, I have been reading your confessions for quite a while but haven't been commenting of liking anything because I do not want these kinda things, but now that I have known the situation of my brother I am not able to guide him correctly but I would like suggestions and advices from you guys as he's in kind of a dilemma now a days, brought unto him by himself. The story starts as when my brother (Asif) started asking mother to see some girl for him. So our other brother (Kashif) also started looking for a girl for him, for this purpose he arranged a meeting between our Asif and one of his (Kashif) friend's sister. Now after meeting the girl Asif was not sure about her, as he did not see the girl to be beautiful, but due to the fact that Kashif involved his friend and all the friends family Asif finally said yes, but now he is in a dilemma that he isn't sure he wants to marry this girl now. P.S: ze da dwanro na kashra yam kho Asif ma sara har se share kaye, ma warta mashwara warkaray wa che os ba Kashif lag khafa she kho ko rosto warkay se lanja rala no bia ba ghat khafgan we, kho agha zama khabaray ta ghwag kenakhodo. Please os mala mashwara rakaye che ze senga Asif convince kam che os carry on ke au assay lanjay pakay na joraye

(Childhood harassement)

Salam to all.... plz dnt mention my name.zama da childhood story..za yow zale skl ground ke nasta wam.. za agha tym 7 years wam..za pa agha wraz dera bore wam zama frndz am nawal raghale nu zama na der senior alakan wo aghae khapalo ke gap lagole wo nu ma aghae ta katal nu aghe ke yow alak raghalo mala mata wae sta nama sa ta charta ose ge.... ma warta har sa owail bia mata wae 6 ta lowe ya she nu ta ba ma sare wada ke... ma warta katal zama mind agha khabara na aghastala bia ma altana mande k o cls ta laram o jaral me.. bia pa bala wraz ground ke mala raghalo wae za cricket kom mata gora za dera oyaredam.. bia ye cricket kolo o mata ba ye khandal bia mala raghalo o yow bal frnd am warsare wo o za agha alakanu dowaru taraf na gera kalam mata wae cricket me singa oko za starge ra dhake showe... mata wae ta khu jare aghae ajeeba harkatuna kol ma altana manda ka agha alak rapase ra manda ka wae khabara khu me wawora kana... mata pata nishta 6 aghae mata sa wail khu za dera disturb wam ma ba hara shpa jaral ma cha ta kor kim hal nawo wele... za ba bia takreeban 8 months pore schl ground ta natlam.. pa cls k bame jaral 6 frndz ba rata wail 6 wale naze ma ba warta bana jora ka... zama da alakanu na yow khof peda shaway wo .. taso ta khu ba da yow common story khakare khu za de wakeye dera zeyata disturb kare wam zaka 6 za dera wara wam...ma sare bachpan k dowa dere zale dase shawe de.... zma da de story welo maqsad da wo 6 zamung society k jenake blkul m safe na de.. zamung parents la pakar d che bachpan na khpl luryane powe yae che strangers specially alakanu na zan bach satae. plz boyz dont mind.. za tol boyz na point out kom.

( 50 years old child )

Awal salaam kom tasu tolo ta.. bia drta khpala nawe story share kom..masara nan dase chal oshu che za sadar ke tailor dukan na rakushm nu yu gli gady me makhe ta wlarh o silver colour ke o.. za aghe na lag akhwa taxi ta wlarh wm nu gady malik ralu kenastu pake lag makhke larhu bia U turn ke ratao shu zama khwata bia udredu.. za ye lag akhwa shum ma we ka bia parking akhle nu ma pase rarustu shu..shesha e kulao krha wae alaka chata wlarh e ma we taxi kom we chrta ze ma we..dy defens pory tlam wae za um akhwa zm raza che zu ma wrta way na thanks tasu zai wae na na raza yawaze em bore kegm agha sarhe ta me katal dase 50 age ke wo laga laga gera m wa spena o tora ma we za raza kena wasara .. bs kenastm gady e dair yakh o wae sanga e alta sa ke ma we kor me dy.. wae kha bs ase formal khbre strt krhe sake o plar dy sa ke o brother etc etc,, ma wrta har sa dair clear na we bs ase akhwa dykha me wasare kol..yaredm wem chrta ghaib me nake..bs sa gorm sarhe rana laas onewo wae sm narm laas dy de.. ma we sa matlb wae na ghalat soch makawa zwe pa ze me e wae sta amra zama zaman ddy..ma T shrt achole wo half slevz us rala bar bar pady las las wakhe mala m sama gusa raghale wa khu ma we ka us wrta sa wem nu bia ba wae che da zwe pa zy me e..zan me ghale osatalu bia e rala las khpal chest sara olagulu wae da zrha me dasara ase dair olagedu o laas na e rala kis wagastu ba ma we larhy chapa shwe.. dy ke mung aman chok sara o ma wrta we wem ma om dlta drop ka haji gula nur ba khpala zm agha bia wae na na roja da gunah da o zwe pa zy me e o ma yarega..sakht e besura karhe um yara pa jes na poe dm che sa okm...bs da qise qatare rawane e da black sheshu shata.. khpal love izhaar e kolo mata wae wekhte dy dair silky dy km shampoo lage..o wekhto ke rala laas wahalu zrha me guse na drazedu sa me wrta na we..che zy me ralu wae yu gharha khu raka ma hm zrha ke we che da dumra dy rabandy laas owahalu da gharha um wala che gharha me wrka bs pady makh makha e khkwal krhm wae dair khug e .. wae number dy dy mobil ke oleka ma wrta sa gad wad nmbr oleku o save me ku Allah khbr dacha ba e.. wae shpe tarawo na pas ba drta kom ma we kha oka..che kuzedm ma we yu khbra drta kum haji saib che da zan rata sam kacha kuni khkara shu tasara pady lag saat ke..sta la roja da beghairata. .o la we da zwe pa zy me e kala dy zwe sara makhke seat ke da chal karhe..wem dair khatir me drla oko dumara ba drla cha na e karhe usa pory.. wae oo ta khu khafa shwe etc this nd that khu za te rawan shum..nu ase wem che da khalaq sumra beghairata o behaya shu pukhtoon society ke yaar.. za pokh alak da 23 years khu ba em km na..za bach na em pate mata khtra da nu jenake o teenager boys khu dy sa na wae.. Ya Allah ToooBaa

At last we got a happy ending

AssalamOalaikum!! It started 3 years back when i joined CA,The first time i saw her in college, i had this in my mind something groovy is going to happen.She was my batchmate.i don't know why but she used to cross my mind whenever i thought of making friends in class.She was very intellectual and possessed a perfect rational character. i fell for her soon.we started studying a subject together and became friends,good friends. we passed our papers in first attempt and now AlhamduLillah we are doing our articleship in worlds leading auditing firm , waiting for our training to finish and get married. My life's 3 most contented years have passed giving me great memories to cherish,it includes my family,My friends , most interesting and challenging CA papers,my successes and SHE. i want the end of this story to be " Two young and smart Chartered Accountants married and living happily " InshaAllah..

Confession# 1406 (Working women)

Khabarey la razam dase da che zma Uni ke library ke che kam Cafeteria da aghe ke pa counter female nastha we nu alakan ao jenaky tol warzi har sa khu akhli ra akhli khu khbra da da che ma da note kre da che deer alakan e aksar tangaii shan mean che 200 rupees warta da yadekey dwe ba waye sa 500 bowww dumra ziatey da wale da khu dase da ao da khu dase da... Za qasm a Allah che dagha jenay oguram deer pe khafa sham da de ba hm plar we mor ba e we ror ba e we khu kedishe aghwe paisey na gatale she zaka da nan da majboray pa halat ke dalta walara da ao munga be zamera ao pa nasha k mast arho ihsas laro na che da wale dalta walara da Aaya da che nurey jenakay see ke khafa kege ba na che kash za de hm de Uni ke de jenako pa shan student we zama de hm friends we enjoy we mazey we senga che de ham umar jenaky raze cafeteria ta ao khpalo ke aghe gap shap lagaiii da warla har sa warkey ao gorey warta wale da da cha na pa sa kama da kha khkule da kha sa na sa sabaq e wele de wale nur da de haq na wu sa.... Aaya mung ba khpala Khur ya sok Czn pa de zay bardasht ko....?? Yu female da paiso da para bahr rawatal deeera loya khabara da male bia hm ka deer mashum she khu male we khu female ala raozi da kor na che kala da majboray had we... Za qasm pa Allah dagha cafeteria ta na zam zaka zama pa daghe female nazar preozey ao khfa kegm pe deer khu sa pe was ke me sam neshta ya che aksar lar shm frnds sra nu za de ta Shaa kum makhamkh warta na kenam bia me te soch na akhwa kege.... Wayalo matlab me da de che masti pa khpal zay khu respect warkaway dase khalko la society ke plz dwe deer majbor we zaka bahr rawatey we. Na sirf da balky Diwao etc k che kamey jenaky we aghe aksar khalk tangaii ao gor gor warta gorey nu plz Khuday la para lag Ihsas peda k zan k pa de soch che saba dalta khuday maka staso Sis walara wa ao dase warsa kedal nu taso ba sa feel kola....!! Thanks... smile emoticon